Honesty means
there are no
contradictions or
discrepancies in
thoughts, words, or
actions. To be honest
to ones real self and
to the purpose of a
task earns trust and
inspires faith
in others. Honesty is
never to misuse that
which is given in
trust.
onesty
is a clear conscience "before myself and before my fellow human beings." Honesty
is the awareness of what is right and appropriate in ones role, ones behavior,
and one relationship. With honesty, there is no hypocrisy or artificiality which create
confusion and mistrust in the minds and lives of others. Honesty makes for a life of
integrity because the inner and outer selves are a mirror image.
Honesty is to speak that which is thought and to do that which is spoken. There are no
contradictions or discrepancies in thoughts, words, or actions. Such integration provides
clarity and example to others. To have one form internally and another form externally
creates barriers and can cause damage, since one would neither be able to come close to
anyone else, nor would others want to be close. Some think, "I am honest, but no one
understands me." That is not honest. Honesty is as distinct as a flawless diamond
which can never remain hidden. The worth is visible in ones actions
Inner honesty needs to be examined to provide wisdom and support and
ensure strength and stability. Positive firmness within creates an oasis of spiritual
resources, giving confidence to be grounded in ones self-esteem. That is
assertiveness. If internally there is attachment to a person, object, or idea, that
attachment poses an obstacle to reality and objectivity, and action cannot be taken in the
interest of the whole. The internal state should not be influenced by the negativity of
ones nature, feelings, or personality traits Selfish motives, hidden agendas, and
negative feelings and habits are stains on the mirror of life. Honesty acts as the stain
remover.
For self-growth, there should be cleanliness in one efforts and truth in ones
heart. Cleanliness mean exploring and changing consciousness and activity which blemish
the self and raise doubts in others. There should be honesty of the heart and also honesty
of the head; otherwise, there will be self-deception or a tendency to deceive others by
clouding issues with excuses or long-winded explanations. When the mirror of the self is
clean, feelings, nature, motives, and objectives are clearly visible, and the individual
reflects trustworthiness. There is the saying, "The boat of truth may rock, but it
will never sink." Even with honesty, the boat sometimes rocks, but trustworthiness
guarantees the boat will not sink. The courage of truth makes one worthy of trust.
To be trusted and to trust provide the foundation and cohesion necessary for untarnished
relationships. It is also necessary to share with honesty the feelings and motives of one
another. When there is honesty and cleanliness, there is also closeness. Without these
principles, neither individuals nor societies can be functional.
Personal and collective application of such ethics and principles involves
experimenting to see what works best, to see what is meaningful and useful. Such is a
continuous process of application and learning. Progress comes through experimenting with
honesty and implementing it as completely and sincerely as possible at any given moment.
When there is the experience of success, commitment to honesty and integrity is
strengthened. To carry out a task out of force, compulsion, or with a careless or selfish
attitude does not reflect pure motives. To be honest with ones real self and true to
the purpose of a task earns trust and inspires faith in others. For progress to be
sustained requires purity of motive and consistency of effort.
An honest person is one who aspires to follow the highest codes of conduct, who is loyal
to the benevolent and universal principles of life, and whose decisions are based clearly
on what is right and wrong. Such an individual maintains standards which provide guidance
and courage to understand and respect the subtle connections of the world in relation to
his or her life. An honest person appreciates the interconnectedness of the natural world
and does not misuse, abuse, or waste the wealth of resources provided for the well-being
of humanity. An honest person does not take for granted his or her own resources such as
mind, body, wealth, time, talents, or knowledge. Honesty means never to misuse that which
is given in trust. There would always be the concern that resources be used in a
worthwhile way - for the basic human, moral, and spiritual needs of all people. Well-used
resources create well-being and are a means for those very resources to multiply. The
individual who is deeply committed to development and progress keeps honesty as a constant
principle in building a world of peace and plenty, a world of less expenditure and greater
splendor.
"Our discussions must be full, they must be thorough, and they must be
courteous. The votes which we take must be free. It is essential, above all, that
decisions, once taken, should be accepted loyally, and we must all of us do our best to
implement them to the full."
Mr. P. H. Spaak,
President of the First Session of the UN General Assembly,
January, 1946
The Value Statements are drawn
from Living Values: A Guidebook, a publication of the Brahma Kumaris.
These were used by Living Values Education as part of the
conceptualization and consultative process during the initial
meeting with UNICEF in New York in August of 1996.